Back to basics..

Love is a choice.

we have the freedom to choose to do it, or otherwise.
Words can sound so worthless without the accompaniment of actions to it. We say we love this and that; and every other thing that we do in our daily activities . But are we really loving what we are doing or has it turned into a religiously passe phrase- a slogan which means nothing more than mere words?

Love is not just a feeling or a sudden burst of emotion that we have for that special moment only. Love is a commitment. You got to love it still even when you are frustrated with it, sick of it, tired of it, giving up hope on it. if u really love, you will do whatever it takes to turn your love slogans into actions.

MY life is Your song
TO You my life belongs
Let all earthly crowns fade in the shadow of the Cross..
My life is Your song
I'll sing for You alone
Nothing in this world Can take me away from You
Our love goes on and on..

SHOULD I GET A LAVA LAMP??

i'm just contemplating.... will my $30 bucks go to waste if i purchase this lava lamp at marina square?...i mean, on the first day i saw it at work, i was sooooooooooo fascinated by it, i called JON all the way in Malaysia and told him that they're selling it at a cheap price!! Well, until today, it's still on special offer! ANd what's more, it's really beautiful!

The light and blobs of wax moving up and down gets me attracted to it!!

And to think that MY BLOG HAS ONE (*teng teng teng..scroll to the bottom!!)..If u didn't notice, I'm really thinking of getting THE REAL DEAL one of these days..ANd knowing me..when i LIKE something, and i feel guilty about getting it, I get it for someone else...LOl!! so..WHO WANT'S A LAVA LAMP!? :)



Seriously..Shopping is not just about clothes... kekekek



Ps..btw..pleeeze dun tell Dev...shhhshhshhh....

shopping anyone?

i went shopping...

and this is something i didn't buy...

this is the best kind of therapy &

the worst kind of addiction...

Signs of a Shopping Problem
If you suspect that you or a loved one may have a problem with shopping, look for these warning signs:

Spending over budget: Someone with a shopping problem will not understand the need to limit his/her spending. Often, his/her spending exceeds their income.
Compulsive buying: A person intends to purchase one new pair of pants, but ends with an entire outfit—or more.
Chronic problem: Many American overspend at Christmas, but do not have a shopping addiction. It becomes a problem when overspending occurs year round, and a person relies heavily on credit to sustain his/her shopping habits.
Hiding the problem: People with shopping addictions will hide their purchases or keep secret accounts and credit cards.
Vicious circle: Even if people with shopping addictions return their purchases, they continue to overspend on a regular basis.
Impaired relationships: A person will spend large amounts of time shopping, instead of nurturing relationships with his/her families or significant others. In order to hide the problem, he/she may pull away emotionally and physically.
Clear consequences: The amount of money spent shopping does not matter so much as the results of the spending—whether or not other areas of life are being negatively affected by the shopping addiction.

adapted from lovetoknow.com

i think i'm fine... :)

NEW YEAR....NEW POSTSSSS!!! (notice it's plural..)

DEAR ALL...

Happy new year to all of you..thanks for being a part of my life..well, if you are reading this, i know you are :) Anway, some of you may be wondering..(again?!) where have i been. Well, i have been doing some soul searching..and i finally realised that i want to be left alone. That's why i stopped blogging..

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You definitely didn't buy that right?!! :P LOl..

okay..jokes aside.. upon GRADUATION....

(with less than 6 feet tall..urrgghh!!)

.... I had been pretty much hopping around for the past few months. I see that from October i didn't blog at all..well, that marked a significant point of my life. i started working!! lol..working life is pretty alright albeit every other architect and uni senior trying to scare me by saying that i'm gonna lose my soul once i start working cos it's gonna be sooo stressful in architecture and you work like dogs but you get paid like peanuts?! i've even got senior friends who work like 7 days a week- so totally no life..and heard of news that some work until they end up sick in the hospital..spending more money curing the sickness due to stress than earning the money by working like a cow! GOSH..isn't that enough BAD NEWS to stop one from working!??! yeahh...i thought so..

So i actually wanted to hang around, bum around, go back home once in a while (like the prodigal daughter) to spend some FAMA (father-mother) cash and maybe work part-time teaching piano, or dancing, or start up my own business. sounded like an awesome plan right!? Everybody, even MYSELF especially was convinced by it! Even my parents gave me the green light?!(surprisingly...) BUT, once again..i guess GOd had a different plan..

A month after graduation i was called up by a firm who wanted to offer me a job at DUBAI..I REJECTED IT !! Now..to think of it..how silly can i get?! It's BIG CASH BABY!! Oh well..i wanted to stick around close to all of u..and of cos close to what my heart desires. So i gave it up. and then, a week or two before SOT ended, i was given a job offer to work in an architectural firm in Singapore. Unsure about what i am gonna end up doing, or more of like 'afraid' that i may not even get the job(!) due to my results (...erhmm..not that i flunked or anything..i guess i've seen better ones?! Maybe just gripped by inferiority complex..urghh), i finally went for the interview, liked my interviewers, and TOOK the JOB! oh well.. it was recommended by someone. and i thank God for that someone who recommended me. :)

Seriously, i wouldn't have got the job if it wasn't for him, for a week later after i commenced work, recession started in Singapore, and many people lost their jobs, couldn't get a job and etc etc. Thank God.. and some of you might be wondering..how in the world would i be affected?! Building Industry, baby..Always the first to be hit!!

So, i've got a future plan.. when it's high time, i make my big cash and prepare for the crunch (well it happens every other 15 yrs or so right!?). the next recession i'll probably be about 40-45 yrs old..so i am gonna start getting rich in the next few years or so :)))..Who's with me?!!?!
Invest my money in land, property, steady shares, start businesses (seriously, just being an architect is not gonna make me a millionaire!) for the next 10 yrs. and when the cycle comes, i'm totally prepared! lol..like the brides with the oil lamps and those without the oil lamps waiting for the groom! (er..it's biblical..read up on it :))

SO cheers to all of you guys for the year 2009! I really can't wait to see what's gonna happen this year! REmember, PLAN the YEAR As Soon AS POSsible! cos..If u fail to plan, u PLAN to FAIL!!!

Oh before you go..here'r some pictures which may interest you......

my bed..obviously my bedsheet..in Toa Payoh Lrg 8..doesn't look cozy enough? wait..

a picture of my office.....toilet......heheh....nice right!?

my colleague.....u must be thinking..what the...?! He's very shy...agagagagagaaaa

Singing out..
@imeI

The much talked about Shisha

Shisha..something my jb group has been talking about very often these days. Is it legal? Is it appropriate? Can it be consumed by Christians?

Shisha history is rich and very controversial. It is said that the water pipe originated in India where it was made from coconut shells and then spread to Iran and into different parts of the Arab world before moving onto Turkey. One of the oldest and deep rooted traditions in Turkey is smoking the Shisha, with both men and women finding great pleasure in smoking the waterpipe.

In a shisha, tobacco (as pictured above) is heated by a charcoal. The tobacco smoke passes through a water-filled chamber, which cools the smoke before it's inhaled by the smoker. The tobacco is available in many exotic flavours. It offers a smoother, more flavorful and cooler taste of smoke over that of cigarettes and cigars.Tobacco is one of the main ingredients in it. Well, we all know that we can get hooked to it. Most shisha smokers claim to have gotten hooked to it, more than getting hooked on to sex! So i guess the answer is clear, that it ain't good for you, my friends!

I think many of you must have heard much about what i have to say below. Nevertheless i will stil say it, for the sake of those who have never heard it before. :)

Well friends, everything is neutral by nature. With proper usage it is acceptable. But once there is an abuse, it is wrong. abuse literally means 'abnormal usage' of something. Money is neutral, drugs are neutral. It really depends on the user. Money in the hands of an evil person becomes evil. Money in the hands of a good person, is put to good use. Drugs in actual fact is used by doctors to heal patients. But, put in the wrong hands, there is drug abuse. The same goes to clubbing and pubbing. There is nothing wrong with dancing and having clean fun with a bunch of friends. But if everyone starts getting drunk and wasted, then it's already abuse! Sex is God's gift to mankind. But many abuse it and exploit it for their own pleasure. The same goes to smoking as well.

In conclusion, whatever which gets you hooked on to it, gets you addicted to it, it isn't good for you.

So, don't try it! You don't have to try a ciggy to know that it ain't good for your health! In Denmark, Shisha sellers have to put a notice 'smoking may kill' to remind these smokers of its danger, no matter how mild it may seem to be. Be wise my friends...

IGNO the miniature dinasour

Now that you've met my happy slimy friends in the pond, i want you to meet one of my closest and longest lasting pet around (been sticking with me since form 4 man!! it rockss!!). Meet..

IGNO the iguana!!!

Yes my dears..i have an iguana! It has been around since I was 16…8 years already! Could live as long as a dog! Well, I loved it dearly. You must be wondering, why an iguana (??). well, when I was 11-16, I was madly in love with Mark Owen (yes, that’s right gals…Take That poster boy, Mark owen!). And in one of the videos about their lives, Mark showed the world his pet..an iguana. And I thought..’Awww…..how cute!!!’. So when iguanas were being sold in Malaysia, my family was one of the earliest to buy it! Few people have met it even. Dev fed it some fruits before, and so did Shawn, while Mei Ching stood around staring at the little monster, afraid..very afraid!! So Igno is really the center of attraction actually. From the day we bought it, uncles and aunties have always wanted to kill it and make iguana soup for Chinese New Year. How could they?! Ever! Even the thought of it! *tsk tsk*
Oh well, Igno is still very much well and alive! Favourite food..durians (yes, believe it or not!), bananas amd hibiscus flowers. That’s like ice-cream and dessert for it. It’s staple food- kangkung all the way man..bland and boring!

Well, Igno and me came a looooong way man. It spent time accompanying me while i studied for my SPM..ahhaha..really. I hung a really long piece of cloth across my room window and door, and it was crawling up and down the cloth, having fun. haha! I bathed it a few times even, in my parent's bath tub! ehehhe.. Igno even went for walks and crawled all over me when it was still young and cute. Oh well, now it's a little too old! and huge! and i'm a little afraid of it! It's like a BIG miniature dinasour! BUT...I still love it! Do visit him if u want to!

It's 2.21am in the morning of September the 16th and i am still wide awake, with the intention of waking up to something new. Well not yet..can't wait for the news to break though! I have a feeling it's not gonna happen within the next 24 hours. Weeks, it seems, it'll take. Well, half of you may not know what precisely am i writing about! That's the fun part..you keep guessing, while i keep writing about the anticipation...the hopes..the dreams of waking up to a better tomorrow.

Anyways...

I've been having a blast of a time doing much about nothing back in peejay! I just came to a self realization that i will NEVER be able to bum around and be a couch potato ever again when i start working! OMIGOSH!

Unless of course, i got fired! So i've decided, instead of telling my parents, "i'm so bored at home! I wanna go back to JB! SOT was so fast paced..i need that!", I have decided to make full use of my time to live on my parent's account(!!!), to eat all that i can, watch all the movies that i can, and don't feel a single tinge of guilt about it! Lol! Well, the truth is, I have not been the prodigal daughter. *Grin* I have been good- staying home, helping out, cleaning the fish pond, and doing what a good daughter should be doing (lots of thumbs up for that perhaps?!)

The fish pond was the worst ever! Everybody in the house literaly left the pond to rot + breed mosquitoes. It reminded me of DARK WATER- seriously. It is a habitat to an alligator turtle which is 10 inches long,..
a big ugly 15 inch long fish ( I can't remember its name. All i know is that Indians love it 'cos it brings them luck) which swims tilted 20 degrees cos the pond water is too shallow for it to swim straight (!),
a freshwater turtle and a million 'longkang' fishes. The 'longkang' fishes were supposed to be food for the alligator turtle. But i guess it outbred the amount of fishes that the turtle could take in.


Along with the muddy water, if i were to put a finger in, it may really be gone by the next minute.

I thought to myself..What's the point of having fishes while not being able to appreciate them?!

Out of that frustration, (and also the fact that i could score some points with my parents) I decided to clean it and even managed to manipulate my brother into it as well *double grins*. It took us 5 hours, and by the third i was having a headache due to chemical reaction from the smell and etc. *eeks!*. It was worth it though..

look at how clean it is now! yay!

even bought some koi fishes as well!

The following day, i had a great seafood dinner cooked by my dad. He bought some really rare fish from Sabah, which i forgot the name. Will post it up tmr.. :) So friends, if you ever need some advice on how to score points with your parents, call me, the princess of manipulation. :)